I get emails and messages all the time saying “OMG woman, I feel like you’re speaking directly to me”!
My fave is one long term client and friend who says “Carly, you’re in my brain again” 😂😂😂
You know why this is?
Because I am!
With so many of the things I write about, I was once there too. 🥹
Abusive, codependent, toxic relationships. 💔
So broke I couldn’t buy loo roll one week.
Being a people pleaser, saying yes out of obligation or because I was too scared to say no. 🫣
Depression and anxiety.
Shitty boundaries, if any. 🫠
Lack of love for myself and lack of joy for life.
Allowing, and enabling others to treat me like shit. 💩
All of which, I’m happy to say, I’ve overcome.
I now have:
❤️ healthy, unconditional love in my life with a man who would never disrespect me
💰 no bad debt, savings in the bank and a healthy looking retirement ahead
✋🏼 healthy boundaries, being able to say no without feeling guilty because I prioritise taking care of myself
🌸 healthy amount of self love, clear on what my needs are
🌻 stable mental wellness
Which is why I love to write about it now!
I was never alone in what I was experiencing in life – I just felt like I was.
I want others who are going through similar things to know they aren’t veither.
If I can pull myself out of several dark places and times in my life, so can you. 💪🏻
One of the biggest things I had to work on was what I call Project Self Worth – loving myself more, building my self-esteem.
This led to finally stopping the behaviours that were holding me back.
I put together a playlist on YouTube that helped me do just that – and now I give it away for free to anyone who needs it to (which is 95% of the population!)
Want it?
Comment PSW and I’ll send it to you. 🫶🏻
As always, if you want a guide on your journey, drop me a message and let’s chat about how coaching and/or energy work can help.
Plus come over and join my free group here.
Catcha on the flip side,
