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Fia

Stop dating them for their potential

  There’s a quiet trap many emotionally intelligent, empathetic people fall into – and I’ve been there in most of my past relationships too. You’re not in love with how they’re showing up right now. You’re in love with who you know they could be. 🤔 You see their depth (you think), their wounds, the backstory that created those wounds, the insight they almost have. You can picture the future version of them so clearly it feels irresponsible not to…

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Is it time to add some fun back into your life? (Your nervous system says yes!) 👏🏼

  In the last few months I’ve found a new hobby – making book nooks. 📕  For most of my life, all the things I’ve done for “fun” have also usually been tied to my biz in some way – learning energy work, coaching tools, personal development stuff and watching serial killer docos. 🔪  But I’ve rarely done stuff just for fun, outside of socialising with mates. A few months ago I discovered these book nooks in Spotlight, and started…

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Ready to go deeper? My 12 week 1:1 healing + coaching container (limited spots)

  Are you at a point in your life where surface-level work just isn’t cutting it anymore? 🤔  You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, done some healing… But you know there’s another level waiting for you. I’m opening VERY limited spots for 1–2 people to work with me 1:1 over 12 weeks for deep, focused transformation. 💞 (Timeframe can be flexible to suit your needs.) This is for people who are ready to stop circling the same patterns……

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Would you be proud to watch yourself back? The wake up call you need…

  I was watching MAFS the other day (Married At First Sight for those not in the know), and the couples are nearing the end of the experiment. The final challenge was for the group of wives to spend the day together, and so did the husbands. Both groups rock up for their separate lunches and are then told they are going to meet the other person they were matched with. 😳 What unfolded was so interesting; at the moment…

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Walking on eggshells isn’t love

  If, in your relationship, you feel like you have to monitor your words, your tone, your behaviour, your mood and basically your entire existence to keep your partner happy, this is a mahoosive red flag – it’s not love. 🚩    You stay because you crave connection with them and your nervous system has become used to being happy enough with the bare minimum breadcrumbs they give you.   Because you’ve normalised it so much, it feels familiar and…

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Stop letting people drain you: 8 Ways to protect your energy

  You’re not exhausted all the time because life is “busy.” 🫩 You’re exhausted because you’re absorbing everyone else’s shite, you’re overthinking everything and you’ve got zero energetic boundaries. So if you’re constantly feeling like life is sucking the energy out of you, it’s time to sort your shit out.   Here are my top 8 ways to protect your energy.   ⚡ 1. GET GROUNDED (YOU’RE WAY TOO IN YOUR HEAD) If you constantly feel like you have a…

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