Sometimes I feel a deep sadness rise up in me, for all the times I let myself down. 🥺 For all the times I gave my power away to others. For all those times I kept my mouth shut while they abused me. 🫢 For all the times I failed to stand up for myself, or to speak my authentic truth. For letting them turn me into a person I didn’t like. 🫣 For giving away my energy, my…
Last week was our final call for this year’s live round of my online coaching program, From Surviving To Thriving. I’ve absolutely LOVED running this live round. ❤️🫶🏻❤️ Each group is so different, and this was my biggest group yet, full of really engaged members who showed up on the live calls week after week. 📱 As always, the shit got stirred up for many of my members as they got stuck into the course content.…
If you have time to play Pokemon/candy crush or watch TV, you have time to build a business, learn something, work on a goal or smash a bad habit. We are full of excuses about “not having the time.” If it really matters to you, you’ll MAKE the time. 🤗 Do you agree? Say for example you’ve always wanted to start a business but you “don’t have the time”. For the next week, add up all the time you…
I often find myself working with clients who have never learned how to appropriately identify their emotions. 🥹 They put their emotions in two buckets – bad (angry and sad) or good (happy). Our emotions are much more complex than this and it can be helpful here to refer to the wheel of emotions to explore what you’re feeling in a much deeper way. For example, you may think that you’re feeling angry, but there are…
Are you aware of the power of the words you’re using day in and day out? 🗣️ I was listening to my coach talk about this on her podcast The Mind School where she was interviewing a psychologist who said the term “experiencing depression” instead of “struggling with depression“. A lot of people wouldn’t pick up on the intentional change in wording there, but this is something I do too. By changing the way you word things, you’re changing…
I get emails and messages all the time saying “OMG woman, I feel like you’re speaking directly to me”! My fave is one long term client and friend who says “Carly, you’re in my brain again” 😂😂😂 You know why this is? Because I am! With so many of the things I write about, I was once there too. 🥹 Abusive, codependent, toxic relationships. 💔 So broke I couldn’t buy loo roll one week. Being a people pleaser, saying…
