How often do you make decisions based on what other people might think? 🤔 Have you ever… 👍🏼 Said “yes” when you wanted to say “no” or “fck off”? 🤐 Stayed quiet to keep the peace? 🧐 Changed your opinion because someone disagreed with you? Put everyone else’s needs before your own? If so, you might be abandoning your authentic self because you’re seeking external validation and approval. For most people, this starts in childhood. 👧 If…
My ladies in Merry Penopause… can you relate? Hormones are moaning and have been for a while, I’m on HRT but still tweaking things and during these winter months I’m struggling so hard to get out of bed. I usually wake up before my alarm goes off but I still feel so knackered (my smart ring tells me I’m often not getting enough deep sleep or REM sleep). I often stay in bed for a teeny bit of extra…
How many people do you know who introduce themselves by talking about their struggles? 🤔 You only need to sit at a nail bar or coffee shop to hear people around you talking about all the things in their lives that are going wrong. Is this something you do too? Do you define yourself by your problems by saying things like “I’m an anxious person”, “I’m a people-pleaser“, “I’m terrible with money“, “I’ve always had shitty relationships“, “I’m just not…
The word “chakra” is a Sanskrit word meaning “wheel of light” – and each chakra brings energy into – and expels energy out of – our bodies. 🌀 Chakras aren’t just “open” or “closed.” They can also become underactive or overactive, depending on what you’ve experienced and how you’ve adapted to it. Think of them as your body’s energetic communication system. When they’re out of balance, they often show up through your thoughts, emotions and behaviours. Have a look…
When I met Lyn in March 2025, she had been agoraphobic for around 5 years and barely left her room during that time. 🥺 She was estranged from her family, had survived abusive relationships, was living with complex PTSD after significant grief and loss, had very little support outside of her doctor and psychologist, and certainly wasn’t living the life she wanted. We initially had a video call to discuss her needs and a way forward. She has since…
Too many people desperately search the cesspool of online dating apps to find “the one”. ☝🏻 But are they giving any thought to becoming the kind of person that would attract the right partner into their lives? Many people now have a long list of non-negotiables for what they want in a partner. ✍🏻 Don’t get me wrong, I definitely support writing out a list of what you want in a partner. It’s important to get clear on their values,…