I like you, but I like me more

I was listening to the Matthew Hussey podcast the other day and they were talking about relationships as they always do.

It was a pretty interesting depth convo about a range of things but at one point his wife said “I like me more than you.”

She wasn’t saying this to him; she was saying it in relation to people who leave a relationship that isn’t good for their best self because they CHOOSE themselves over being “less than” in any relationship.

I love that so much.

I chose others over me SO many times in my life, for so many years and so many reasons.

Ultimately the biggest reason was that I didn’t love myself enough to choose myself and say “I like you, but I like me more.”

Or rather, “I love you, but I love me more.”

I was only able to make that choice when I’d done personal development and healing work to the point where I loved myself so much (in a non egotistical way) where I’d never let anyone treat me like shit again.

I did years of coaching, healing, kinesiology and many other techniques to release whatever baggage was holding me back and allowing me to continue attracting shitty relationships.

At age 38, I finally nailed it!

Then I met Hot Fiancé.