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Are you a vibe raiser or an energy drainer?

  One of my favourite quotes is “some souls leave behind a trail of light that is never forgotten. ✨    I’m always saying to my Reiki students that I imagine we all leave a sparkly trail of light energy wherever we go.   How positive (or negative) that energy is, is up to you. 🌀    The clearer we can keep our energy, and the higher we keep our vibration, the better – not just for us, but for…

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Own it: Why taking responsibility transforms your life

  Throughout my career, I’ve met far more people who aren’t willing to take responsibility for what shows up in their life than those who are.  People who love to take a victim stance and blame others for their actions. One of the biggest lessons in life is that you’re always responsible for how you act, no matter how you feel. Nobody can make you feel or do anything – people will do what they do, and you can choose…

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Do you feel broken?

  I love this quote by Ernest Hemingway; “We are all broken. That’s how the light gets in.” Reminds me of a blog I wrote on kintsukuroi, a Japanese technique where they take broken items and piece them back together with gold, the idea being that we are more beautiful for having been broken. ❤️‍🩹  The most amazing people I’ve ever met are those who truly know what it is to feel broken, and to learn, heal and grow in…

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How to set boundaries

  A while ago I shared a quote: “Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.” ~ Anna Taylor I had a comment on that post from one of my coaching clients which said; “How do we set boundaries Carly?” I thought that was such a great question worthy of its own blog,…

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An open reply to an email I received

  Last week I got the following email via the contact form on my website: “All this advice, advice, advice!  Why doesn’t anyone EVER acknowledge the limitations put upon us by those who control the narrative?  Those who make the laws and decide our options?  It’s near to impossible to create the life you want when society decides it for you and expects you to toe the line?  I’m all for making my dreams come true… if only “they” would…

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The power of words

  Are you aware of the power of the words you’re using day in and day out? 🗣️  I was listening to my coach talk about this on her podcast The Mind School where she was interviewing a psychologist who said the term “experiencing depression” instead of “struggling with depression“.  A lot of people wouldn’t pick up on the intentional change in wording there, but this is something I do too. By changing the way you word things, you’re changing…

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