So many women spend their lives chasing after love, approval, validation and success, believing these things will finally make them feel “good enough“.
But every time you choose someone who won’t choose you, every time you over-give, over-achieve or over-explain yourself, you reinforce your limiting belief that you have to earn your worth. 🥺
But this is just a lie you learned as a young kid who didn’t know any better; as an adult, you’re still chasing the feeling you never received when you needed it the most.
This is why nothing fills this hole for long; no relationship, promotion, qualification, achievement or windfall will fill this wound, this need.
To truly heal the core wound you need to go back in time to where the wound was created; heal it, and learn to love yourself enough to stop being driven by the need to prove your worth to others. 💕
When you operate from true self-love and healthy self-worth, you don’t need external validation.
You stop chasing (which, let’s face it, is fucking exhausting to do all the time anyway). 🙄
This is when your life will finally change.
If you’re ready to stop seeking your worth from everyone else and start finding it within yourself, drop me a message and let’s chat about how coaching and/or energy work can help.
You can also check the link in my bio for a bunch of freebies to help you get unstuck. 🙌🏻
Catcha on the flip side, where we no longer seek external validation.
