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Are you trading authenticity for approval?

    How often do you make decisions based on what other people might think? 🤔  Have you ever… 👍🏼 Said “yes” when you wanted to say “no” or “fck off”? 🤐 Stayed quiet to keep the peace? 🧐 Changed your opinion because someone disagreed with you? 🫩 Put everyone else’s needs before your own? If so, you might be abandoning your authentic self because you’re seeking external validation and approval. For most people, this starts in childhood. 👧  If…

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Stop letting your problems become your identity

How many people do you know who introduce themselves by talking about their struggles? 🤔  You only need to sit at a nail bar or coffee shop to hear people around you talking about all the things in their lives that are going wrong. Is this something you do too? Do you define yourself by your problems by saying things like “I’m an anxious person”, “I’m a people-pleaser“, “I’m terrible with money“, “I’ve always had shitty relationships“, “I’m just not…

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Overactive VS underactive chakras: What’s the difference?

  The word “chakra” is a Sanskrit word meaning “wheel of light” – and each chakra brings energy into – and expels energy out of – our bodies. 🌀  Chakras aren’t just “open” or “closed.” They can also become underactive or overactive, depending on what you’ve experienced and how you’ve adapted to it. Think of them as your body’s energetic communication system.  When they’re out of balance, they often show up through your thoughts, emotions and behaviours. Have a look…

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Stop chasing what you never needed to earn

  So many women spend their lives chasing after love, approval, validation and success, believing these things will finally make them feel “good enough“.  But every time you choose someone who won’t choose you, every time you over-give, over-achieve or over-explain yourself, you reinforce your limiting belief that you have to earn your worth. 🥺 But this is just a lie you learned as a young kid who didn’t know any better; as an adult, you’re still chasing the feeling you…

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How to heal for free

  I started using healing and personal development tools in my early twenties.  For a lot of that time I wasn’t that flush with money and for some of it, in loads of debt. 😬 In my business (coaching, energy work and teaching Reiki), a big issue for a lot of people is wanting to heal but saying they can’t afford to.  But there is SO much you can do completely for free. 🤗 I’m constantly giving out my free…

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Are you being authentic, or just acting out your insecurities?

  One of the biggest things I see in the personal development world is people confusing authenticity or intuition with acting on every feeling they have. Just because something feels true doesn’t mean it’s coming from your authentic self. Sometimes it’s coming from your wounds and insecurities. Which is a mahoosive difference. Your authentic self says: “This relationship isn’t meeting my needs, so I really need to have an honest conversation with them.” 🗣️ Your insecurity says: “They didn’t text…

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