Over the last couple of years, the content I’ve been putting out has focused much more on educating people about unhealthy, toxic and abusive relationships (whatever label you decide to put on it).
With that has come an abundance of trolls – plenty of fake accounts leaving shite comments on my posts.
GOOD. 😂
My coaches have always taught me to celebrate the haters, because it means I’m getting somewhere.
There’s a growing army of people out there (men and women), who are speaking out about men’s violence against women.
Yes, violence is also perpetrated against men, nobody is saying there isn’t. 🤷🏼♀️
But there are so many fuckwits who love to comment on these kinds of posts saying things like “not all men” (nobody is saying it’s all men) or just slagging off the creators of the messages (usually hiding behind their fake accounts like the scared little keyboard warriors they are).
Some guys will think I’m some male-hating feminist, I’m not. I don’t actually consider myself a feminist at all, and I certainly don’t hate men – I have amazing men in my life. I’ve just focused on filtering out the shit ones (men and women, by the way!).
This is one of the reasons I purposely started sharing videos of men speaking out about violence against women – because these healthy dudes are well aware it’s a fucking massive problem. 🙄
I thought it might be fun to occasionally share some of the comments from my haters because honestly, they’re pretty laughable – and I like to share humour with my audience.
Here’s some of my recent gold nuggets:
“When you were young did you envision posting budget cringe videos of yourself to try and scam an easy buck for a living?” and “Reported for scam” – both on a post which said “if someone says coaching ruined their relationship… what they usually mean is their partner stopped tolerating their behaviour”.
I wonder what that guy wants to do when he grows up? And not sure what scam the other chick was reporting seeing as I wasn’t selling anything, lol… 🧐
On a post that said “some people say dating is hard… try dating someone who refuses to grow. That’s like arguing with a brick” – some absolute twat called @zaakyb90 said “would you chick’s just shut up?” …so I just replied with “nope” – pretty easy to see he doesn’t like women much!
I also had my ex go through a phase of setting up a bunch of fake accounts so he could comment on my videos talking about how I was the problem and how we had a nice time and I was looked after.
Ha. Ok mate, don’t forget I wasn’t the one in psychosis in that relationship so I’m sure your version of what happened was totally different to mine!
If you trolls want to waste your time commenting negative shit on posts like mine, carry on – it says so much more about you than it does about me. Think about what you’re doing to make a difference in the world. Probably fuck all.
These fuckwits won’t deter me from putting my message out there: that abuse in relationships is NEVER ok.
To my supporters: I see you, I love you, I mean it. 🫶🏻💕🫶🏻
Be kind, be strong.
Much love,
