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I could spot an abuser a mile away – except in my own relationships

I’ve had a lot of new people follow my content lately so I thought it was time to re-introduce myself! 👋🏼  The woman I am today has run a business as a coach and energy practitioner/Reiki teacher for 21 years. Alongside that, I spent 18 years as a parole officer across London, Sydney and Perth, specialising in serious family violence. I’m in an incredible, loving and supportive relationship with the best human I’ve ever met. 🥰 And most days I’m…

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Lyn’s story – shared in her words + with her consent

  LYN’S STORY: IN HER OWN WORDS + SHARED WITH HER CONSENT When I met Lyn in March 2025, she had been agoraphobic for around 5 years and barely left her room during that time. 🥺 She was estranged from her family, had survived abusive relationships, was living with complex PTSD after significant grief and loss, experiences life long chronic pain issues, depression and anxiety, had no support outside of her doctor and psychologist, and certainly wasn’t living the life…

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Shoutout to my haters

  Over the last couple of years, the content I’ve been putting out has focused much more on educating people about unhealthy, toxic and abusive relationships (whatever label you decide to put on it). With that has come an abundance of trolls – plenty of fake accounts leaving shite comments on my posts. GOOD. 😂 My coaches have always taught me to celebrate the haters, because it means I’m getting somewhere.  There’s a growing army of people out there (men…

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Dinner table convo’s to have with your kids/fam

  Recently I’ve had a couple of clients talking about how they’re managing their blended families when there appears to be a vast difference in how both parents parent the kids with their new sets of partners. When you have a couple who are parenting who are very self-aware, they are also very aware of how every little thing they do, conversation they have and response or reaction they have to their kids can be affirming or damaging. 🥺 I…

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How becoming the cycle breaker can change your whole family ⛓️‍💥💥

  Back when I started my healing/personal development journey I was in my early twenties, so I’ve been on that journey for 20+ years now. Myself, my bro and my sis have amazing role models for parents; their relationship has always been on a pedestal for me in terms of their deep love for each other, the way they co-parent us kids, the way they handle any issues, the way they created a business empire from literally nothing except sheer…

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When you’re the red flag – examples

  Recently I shared a blog called “Are You The Red Flag?” and promised to follow up with some more examples of what some more red flags can look like from those clients who’ve been wounded in past relationships and are now bringing their baggage into the next one.   So here we are!   REAL EXAMPLES (FROM MY CLIENTS) 🚩   I’m not talking about the obvious red flags like cheating or abuse…   I’m talking about the sneaky…

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