We live in a world obsessed with fixing things. 🔨
Broken nails, broken phones, broken relationships.
Fixing our faces so we don’t age. Fixing ourselves with endless personal development.
But some things aren’t fixable – they’re fucked. 🥺
That’s not as doom and gloom as it sounds… but it IS an invitation to stop wasting your fucking time.
I spent YEARS (and a fair bit of money, too) trying to fix things that were never mine to fix – dudes that needed therapy, not a girlfriend. Myself, thinking that if I was good enough, they’d actually love me. Jobs that drained my soul. 🫥
I thought for a long time that if I just loved harder, worked longer and sacrificed more, everything would click into place one day.
But that’s not how it was meant to turn out.
Not everything that’s broken is meant to be repaired.
Some things are meant to be released, like a fart in a strong wind. 💨
You can’t fix people who don’t want to change.
You can’t change the past – it’s already happened. 🤷🏼♀️
You can‘t fix someone else’s happiness at the expense of your own mental health.
Once you stop trying to be the fixer, life starts throwing amazing opportunities your way. 🤩
You get to use the energy you were burning up on trying to resuscitate dead things on YOU for a change – on building your dream life, instead of being chewed up and spat out by your latest unfixable project.
So if you’re feeling stuck right now, ask yourself: am I trying to fix something that isn’t mine to fix? 🧐
Sometimes the best, most powerful healing move you can take is walking the fuck away.
Not your circus, not your monkeys. 🙈
It’s not your job to fix everyone and everything.
Your job is to live your own life – and you get to enjoy it, when you realise you deserve it.
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Catcha on the flip side,
