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Are you committed to doing what it takes?

  The majority of peeps out there are forever looking for a shortcut, a silver bullet or magic pill they can take to achieve their goals if XYZ.   Those of us who are truly invested in our personal development and healing know there are no short cuts – you have to do the work.   YOU have to do the work.   Nobody else can do it for you.   I get asked a lot of questions in my…

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It’s a happy day today

    Today I paid my deposit on my second block of land, not far from the beach. I’ve been itching to build again since I built my first home by the ocean in 2015/16. But rewind from here to the end of 2018, and I felt like I was in a hole. I’d been in a long term relationship where I’d been taken advantage of financially for a very long time. I found myself with my house in mortgage…

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You don’t have to do it all, just because you can

    Do you set high standards and expectations for yourself?   Do you have a never ending to-do list that seems to get longer, not shorter?   Are you a high achiever?   I definitely fall into this category and have exhausted myself being like that over the years.   My driving limiting belief was “you have to work really really really hard for everything you have and even then you can lose it all again”.   Over the…

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Learn to love being alone

  I’ve never really believed in the old saying “two halves make a whole”.   It never really made sense to me.   Don’t two whole people make a better partnership?   If you’re half a person then you’re always looking for someone else to meet your needs instead of you being able to fill your cup without external sources.   When I was in my 20’s, I remember the feeling of looking at a whole weekend with no plans.…

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Are you aware of your own bullshit?

Personal development is a never ending journey; we’re all a work in progress, but the journey is so worth it.   The first step of change is becoming aware of your own bullshit; once you get tired of your own story, that’s when the biggest transformation happens.   How do you know you’re living in a bullshit story?    You keep playing small in life by not going for what you really what  You’re not speaking your truth  You’re afraid…

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What’s this thing called life all about?

“Remember that what you are seeking is also seeking you” As a 15 year old, I used to completely do my own head in pondering philosophical questions. Why are we here? What happens when we die? I used to sit there and try and imagine what happens when we die – I couldn’t imagine not existing anymore, so what happens instead? Never not existing? Combine those thoughts with hormones. Yeah. HARD WORK. I knew what I saw around me wasn’t…

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