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You don’t have to change

  Yep – me, a Coach, said it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ You don’t have to change. You don’t have to leave the relationship, set the boundary, stop people-pleasing, change jobs, go to counselling or work on your self-worth. You don’t have to do any of it; it’s your life. BUT… You can’t keep saying you desperately want your life to be different while refusing to do anything differently. 🤔 At some point, we have to stop bullshitting ourselves.   MAYBE YOU’RE JUST…

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When your trauma becomes your wisdom…

I heard something recently that stuck with me: “When you can remember something traumatic without being emotionally hijacked by it, it becomes wisdom.” That doesn’t mean you forget what happened and suddenly think it was ok, and it defo doesn’t mean you have to be grateful for the shite you’ve experienced. But it does mean that you can finally remember what happened without feeling like you’re re-living it all over again in your body and mind.  Before healing, you tell…

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How lack of purpose + feeling off track show up in your energy field

  Have you ever felt like you’re drifting through life with no real sense of direction? 🤔 Maybe you know something feels “off,” but you can’t quite put your finger on it. One of the first things I check in an energy treatment is the alpha and omega chakras because they reveal how connected someone feels to their life purpose. The alpha chakra sits about 6-8 inches above and slightly forward from the centre of the head, serving as a…

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Stop letting your problems become your identity

How many people do you know who introduce themselves by talking about their struggles? 🤔  You only need to sit at a nail bar or coffee shop to hear people around you talking about all the things in their lives that are going wrong. Is this something you do too? Do you define yourself by your problems by saying things like “I’m an anxious person”, “I’m a people-pleaser“, “I’m terrible with money“, “I’ve always had shitty relationships“, “I’m just not…

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Overactive VS underactive chakras: What’s the difference?

  The word “chakra” is a Sanskrit word meaning “wheel of light” – and each chakra brings energy into – and expels energy out of – our bodies. 🌀  Chakras aren’t just “open” or “closed.” They can also become underactive or overactive, depending on what you’ve experienced and how you’ve adapted to it. Think of them as your body’s energetic communication system.  When they’re out of balance, they often show up through your thoughts, emotions and behaviours. Have a look…

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Lyn’s story

  When I met Lyn in March 2025, she had been agoraphobic for around 5 years and barely left her room during that time. 🥺 She was estranged from her family, had survived abusive relationships, was living with complex PTSD after significant grief and loss, had very little support outside of her doctor and psychologist, and certainly wasn’t living the life she wanted. We initially had a video call to discuss her needs and a way forward. She has since…

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