Love + Loss



I saw this beautiful piece yesterday on a friends page + she was happy for me to share this, thank you Kelly 🫶🏻




Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. 😳 


Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. 🫥


Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another – they have more individuation work to do first. 🫠


Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives – they have another path and purpose to walk first. 👣


Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. 


Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love’s leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. ❤️‍🩹


But this is not always true. 


Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. 


Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. 🫂


Sometimes they know something we don’t – they know their limits at that moment in time. 🤷🏼‍♀️ 


Real love is no easy path – readiness is everything. 


May we grieve loss without personalizing it. 


May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.


~ Jeff Brown, SOULSHAPING 


I’m so happy that I took the time to learn how to love myself after so much heart break in my past relationships.


It feels so amazing so finally be loved back in the same way I give.


Thank you, my love ❤️🫶🏻❤️


As always, if you want a guide on your journey, drop me a message and let’s chat about how coaching and/or energy work can help. 


And come over and join my free group here.


Catcha on the flip side,


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