Hey legend,
As this year comes to a close, I want to offer you something different. 💫
Not a pep talk, not a push, not a “new year, new you” speech.
Just a pause. Time to reflect. 🧐
There’s a lot of noise at this time of year telling you to reflect harder, decide faster and to know exactly what you want next.
But here’s what I see, again and again, in my work with hundreds of clients each year:
Real change doesn’t come from forcing clarity or setting goals that you’re not really committed to.
It comes from creating enough internal safety for the truth to surface. 🤷🏼♀️
If this year has been big, heavy, confusing, painful, transformative (or all of the above) you’re not behind.
After all, it has been a 9 year in numerology (completion, endings) and the year of the snake in Chinese astrology (shedding your skin, whether that’s behaviours, relationships, old patterns or limiting beliefs that no longer serve you). 🥹
You don’t need to wrap it up neatly and tie it in a bow. 🙇♀️
You don’t need answers yet.
You don’t need to make decisions tonight – especially if you’re in an emotional place. 🙃
Sometimes the most powerful way to end a year is to let your nervous system exhale.
To gently notice what drained you, what steadied you, where you felt most like yourself and where you felt yourself shrinking. 🥺
No fixing. No judging. Just awareness.
Because awareness always comes before change.
And when we start a new year grounded instead of rushed, pressured, or forcing certainty, clarity has a way of arriving on its own. 🤩
If you’re feeling the urge to reset without burning yourself out, I’ve created something to support you gently.
🤩 Make 2026 Your Best Year Yet 🤩
It’s my gift to you: a free reflection and reset guide designed to help you slow down your thinking, reconnect with what actually matters to you and move into the new year feeling grounded, not overwhelmed.
No hype. No hard goals. Just space to listen to yourself again.
👉 You can download it here:
Make 2026 Your Best Year Yet
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Wherever you are tonight…. celebrating, resting, grieving, or quietly hoping for something better, know this:
You’re allowed to begin gently.
You’re allowed to take your time.
And you don’t need to have it all figured out to be on the right path.
Thank you for being here, for trusting me with your stories, and for doing the brave, quiet work of becoming more you. 🙏
Here’s to a softer start, a steadier nervous system, and a year that meets you where you are. 😍
With so much love,
Carly xx
“Carly is a beautiful energetic soul that brings joy and hope to helpless souls and encourages the ones that are already on the right path, but sometimes fall down. She’s real and fantastic.”
