My ladies in Merry Penopause… can you relate? Hormones are moaning and have been for a while, I’m on HRT but still tweaking things and during these winter months I’m struggling so hard to get out of bed. I usually wake up before my alarm goes off but I still feel so knackered (my smart ring tells me I’m often not getting enough deep sleep or REM sleep). I often stay in bed for a teeny bit of extra…
Can I ask you something? When was the last time you asked someone for help? 🤔 Not because you had no other options, but because you were on the verge of a breaking point – because you were fucking done carrying the burden of everything alone all the time. When I ask my coaching clients this, many struggle to answer and genuinely find it difficult to remember the last time they asked for help. 😵💫 They’ve become so used…
If you’ve ever had an energy treatment with me, I’ve probably found your assemblage point out of alignment and adjusted it. 🙌🏻 Most people – including many energy practitioners, have never even heard of the assemblage point, but in my opinion it’s the most important part of your energy field. It’s the central point of your energy field, so I feel that even if you balance your chakras all you want, if this central point of your whole energy…
After all the trauma you’ve endured and how much you’ve grown from it, you might start telling yourself “I’ve got this,” when you realise you’re one of the most independent people you know. It seems like confidence on the surface because you’re a strong, capable and independent person. 💪🏻 But what can seem like confidence may actually be the result of your nervous system learning that relying on other people wasn’t safe. Your brain has adapted because you were…
One of the most fucking annoying people tell survivors of toxic, abusive and narcissistic relationships is: “Just get over it” … as if what you endured was only a bad breakup. 😳 Like you can wake up one morning, decide you’re done thinking about them, and magically move on. But when you’ve spent months or years in a relationship involving manipulation, coercive control, gaslighting, trauma bonding and emotional abuse, they didn’t just hurt your feelings. They totally changed the…
Imagine a world where we’re all taught how to regulate our emotions as kids, see our problems from a different perspective or as growth opportunities, and to have compassion and non-judgement for others. 🌍 A world where we process trauma as it happens, not when we hit a mid-life crisis. How different would that world look? 🧐 Less mental health issues? Less addiction issues? Less reacting and more responding? There are plenty of tools that you can use as…