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Stop playing the victim

 

Are you a “victim,” or are you taking responsibility for your life? 🧐 

I’m not talking about those who are or have been a victim of some kind of trauma. ❤️‍🩹 

But there’s a big difference between being a victim and being a survivor and someone who likes the drama of playing the victim. 

So many of us THINK we’re taking responsibility for our own live’s when we aren’t really. 

The “victim” mentality is very subtle and it takes many forms. 

Where are you playing the role of the victim? 

What are you not doing in your life that you could be doing, that you are blaming someone else for not doing for you? 🤬

Are you someone who loves a good whinge about any little thing that happens in life? 😫

How serious is it, really?

Is it really worth complaining about?

I know people who are going through serious, end of life health issues who never complain about life and always focus on seeing the best in their situation. 🥹

They’re a pleasure to be around. 💞

I know others who are constantly complaining about life no matter how insignificant their perceived problems are.

I limit my time with these people as much as I can. ✋🏼 

If you’re someone who loves drama and the attention of complaining about life, go and spend some time with people less fortunate than you.

Try and spend even a day without complaining and instead focus on all the things you have to be grateful for.

The warm bed you slept in, when others are sleeping on a cold park bench or the pavement. 🛌 

The fact you can walk on your two legs, when others are in a wheelchair or don’t have functioning legs. 🦵🏼 

The fact you woke up today, when some didn’t. 

Something to think about.

If you’re sick of the baggage that’s keeping you stuck, join my FREE FB group here for value bombs and freebies.

As always, if you want a guide on your journey, drop me a message + let’s chat about how coaching +/or energy work can help. 

Catcha on the flip side,

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