When you’re facing negative situations in life, how do you handle it? 🤔 Do you spend your time and energy complaining about the way things are? Do you blame other people? 😤 Do you put it in the basket of “nothing will ever work out for me”? Or do you use it as an indication that you’re not where you want to be, and do something about it? If you’re stuck in negative…
We all go through painful situations in life – it’s an inevitable part of the journey of living. But suffering is a human condition + one that we do to ourselves. We obsessively think about things that happened in our past, that we did or were done to us. 🤯 We overthink all the things we believe are going wrong in our lives. By doing so, we forget how magnificent our life really is.…
I have four awesome, crazy little nephews who are unfortunately a long way away in New York. My fam has a group family chat and every now and again, we get a little voice message from Mr Four. Hitting play on this has got to be one of the highlights of my day. You hear in his little sniffly four year old voice; “I feel fank u for….” with him repeating this over and…
Around 80% of our thoughts are negative. Does that number surprise you? In my twenties I did some volunteering as an Appropriate Adult for vulnerable adults being interviewed by the Police. (Side note: a lot of my mates will have a giggle at me having the title “Appropriate Adult”) 😆 As part of that training we learned about mental health and anxiety provoking thoughts that can lead to behaviour change during interviews. As homework we were told to pay closer attention…
“Stop giving someone else the job of making you happy” – The Universe If you were to rate your general happiness levels out of 10, what score would you give yourself? We tend to put our happiness in the hands of external forces. We’ll be happy when we meet the love of our life. We’ll be happy when we’re out of debt. We’ll be happy when we get a new job. We also put the reasons for our unhappiness in…