We’ve all got people in our lives who suck the life out of us.
Those kind of push/pull relationships where they’ll push you away, call you a crappy friend/partner, act like you don’t even exist or talk smack about you to others.
Then they pull you back in with some drama or another, making you feel needed in some way.
Exhausting, isn’t it? True energy vampires.
Ask yourself what it is you’d need to do to change the situation.
Do you need to have better boundaries?
If you loved and honoured yourself, what would you do differently?
How are your needs being met, or not being met?
What are you getting out of this relationship/friendship?
What would your life be like without this drama in your life?
Is this person helping or hindering you?
Love yourself, and start decluttering the energy vampires.
You don’t always need to pick up the phone or text back.
You can see them less often, say “no” more often.
You can assert yourself more than you have been.
Love yourself, because life is so much more awesome when you stop wasting time on drama llamas.
Start today. If you need any help, you know where to find me 🙂
Catcha on the flip side,
