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Don’t let anyone take you back to a level you’ve already levelled up from

    I’ve been speaking to a few clients this week about how they’ve found themselves in another abusive relationship after recovering from their last one. 😖    We leave a shell of our former selves. 🐚 s   We get strong again. 💪🏻   Then we attract another partner who starts using the same kind of behaviours. 😳   Listen to the red flags! 🚩    When you’re strong, do what you need to do to keep you strong.…

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Pain is part of life; suffering is optional

    We all go through painful situations in life – it’s an inevitable part of the journey of living.   But suffering is a human condition + one that we do to ourselves.    We obsessively think about things that happened in our past, that we did or were done to us. 🤯   We overthink all the things we believe are going wrong in our lives.   By doing so, we forget how magnificent our life really is.…

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What is the assemblage point + how do you know if yours is in the wrong place?

  🤨 excuse the slow video 😂     In 2010 I learned about the assemblage point + the various symptoms you get when it’s been knocked out of alignment.    If you’re feeling out of sorts, watch this video.   👇🏼 Comment INFO if you want me to send you more information about the assemblage point   💞 Comment HEAL if you want more info about booking in for an energy treatment with me   🫶🏻 Comment WORKSHOP if…

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Don’t take anything personally

    We tend to think the way other people treat us is to do with us personally.   Most of the time, that’s not true. ☺️   Most of the time what people say is actually nothing to do with you.   It’s a projection of their own reality, the way they see life is through their own tinted kinda glasses. 🤓    Glasses framed by their past life experiences, their belief system, their traumas + triggers.    The…

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The body keeps the score

    I’m reading a book at the moment which has been on my to-read list for SO long; The Body Keeps the Score by Bessell Van Der Kolk.   At the moment I’m reading a section about safety and reciprocity, about how being able to feel safe with other people is “probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives”.   Numerous studies have found that social support is the…

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Stop saying “should” – use “will” and “must”

    How often do you tell yourself you “should” do something?   I really should save money instead of buy that thing. 💰    I really should get up earlier to get to the gym.  🏋🏼    I really should look after myself better.   Should doesn’t often eventuate because there’s already a lack of commitment in the statement.    How does it feel when you replace “should” with “will” or “must”?   It becomes a thing that you’re…

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