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Coach Carly

Learn to love being alone

  I’ve never really believed in the old saying “two halves make a whole”.   It never really made sense to me.   Don’t two whole people make a better partnership?   If you’re half a person then you’re always looking for someone else to meet your needs instead of you being able to fill your cup without external sources.   When I was in my 20’s, I remember the feeling of looking at a whole weekend with no plans.…

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The quality of your emotions equals the quality of your life

  Do you agree with this statement?   On a daily basis I work with clients who struggle to manage their emotions.   Some are completely disconnected from them and have a hard time knowing how to even state what emotion they are feeling other than simply “good” or “bad”.   Being completely disconnected is often a protection mechanism – they feel they might unlock Pandora’s box and face all the shit they’re avoiding if they start to delve into…

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The biggest disability you can have is a bad mindset

  Many moons ago now my baby sister ran the New York marathon – her first of many crazy fitness expeditions.   (Check out her Insta and website for her fitness inspo)   We travelled to NY with my mum and baby bro and had such a cool time in an insane city.   I remember how everything really did look like it was out of the TV show Friends. My fam sat on the steps outside of some building so…

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Are you aware of your own bullshit?

Personal development is a never ending journey; we’re all a work in progress, but the journey is so worth it.   The first step of change is becoming aware of your own bullshit; once you get tired of your own story, that’s when the biggest transformation happens.   How do you know you’re living in a bullshit story?    You keep playing small in life by not going for what you really what  You’re not speaking your truth  You’re afraid…

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Are you drifting through life?

“Drifting is the decision you’re making when you don’t make a decision about where you’re heading” I heard this statement in a podcast the other day and it really hit as a truth. A lot of people are coasting/drifting through life, day by day feeling like it’s Groundhog Day, without any real sense of purpose or meaning. I especially find this happens in “mid life” where people have what essentially society says should make you happy – a good job,…

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Choose the bigger life

  I was listening to a podcast interview the other day where Gretchen Rubin from The Happiness Project was talking about asking a certain question when you’re unsure about taking a certain action.   She gave the example of when she was thinking about getting a dog.   Her kids really wanted one, but she was thinking about the extra responsibilities that go along with it and how it would make it more hassle to travel as she’d have to…

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