We live in a world obsessed with fixing things. 🔨 Broken nails, broken phones, broken relationships. Fixing our faces so we don’t age. Fixing ourselves with endless personal development. But some things aren’t fixable – they’re fucked. 🥺 That’s not as doom and gloom as it sounds… but it IS an invitation to stop wasting your fucking time. I spent YEARS (and a fair bit of money, too) trying to fix things that were never mine to fix –…
Since I was at school I was always the one my mates would turn to for a brain dump. They’d vent to me and I’d seem to know what to say to help them feel better. ❤️🩹 It felt good for me too, so it seemed only natural to get into a career where I was helping others. My identity was totally enmeshed with being the helper, the fixer… the one everyone turned to with their pain, their…
We all have emotional baggage from our past that holds us back from achieving our goals and being our best self. ❤️🩹 One of my favourite things to do is to help others uncover what’s holding them back so they can become the best version of themselves. Out of the hundreds of tools I’ve learned along the way, forgiveness work is my number one go-to if I’m stuck. The first forgiveness technique I learned was taught to me by…
I heard a quote recently that said “the most dangerous thought in the world is thinking you know everything”. It rang so true. 🤔 “I already know this.” It’s your inner saboteur in a power suit. The ego’s last line of defence. The reason you’re stuck in an endless scroll of inspo while your passion slowly packs its bags and ghosts you. 👻 If you’re feeling stuck, lost, hopeless, and like your passion went out for milk and…
I was listening to my coach Breanna May’s podcast the other day (shoutout to Bre) and she was talking about what happens when people are stuck. She quoted Tony Robbins, who said “the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself”. This is soooo true. One of my all time favourite questions to ask my clients when they’re stuck on literally anything is: “if you 100% loved, honoured, trusted and respected…
I was once sat next to an older lady while we both got our nails done. About five minutes after I sat down to get mine done she starts telling me all about her life. An hour later I knew she’d had a heart attack eight years ago and that’s why she was sweating so much, she has a pacemaker and recently she broke her finger saving a puppy and now can’t feel any pain in that hand –…