Imagine getting bitten by a snake, and instead of focusing your energy on recovering you chase the snake, wanting to know why it hurt you. 
You want to prove to the snake that you didn’t deserve it biting you. This is a great analogy for what those who seek approval and validation outside of themselves tend to do when hurt by others. We chase them for answers; why did they hurt us? What did we do wrong? What…
“I am at a place in my life where peace is a priority. I make deliberate life choices to protect my mental, emotional and spiritual state.” This is a great affirmation you can repeat to yourself if peace has become a goal for you. I spent most of my life always achieving, working towards the next big goal or dream. I’ve been really blessed to always do work I love, helping people get unstuck from the darkest corners of…
1. Avoid blaming someone or something else for your negative feelings. Nothing and nobody has the power to control how you think and feel unless you let it. 2. Don’t blame yourself for not being in control. You’re doing the best you can. 3. Be aware of when you’re playing the victim role. Learn the clues that tell you when you’re not being responsible for what you’re being/doing/having/feeling. 4. Get to know your biggest energy –…
This is me, Thursday night just gone, in massive pain and laying on hot water bottles. I’ve had chronic pain for about the last nine or ten years after I wrote off my motorbike and landed on my head. Didn’t know for the first seven years that it was a bulging disc in my neck causing issues as my main symptom was neck and shoulder pain. Started getting a mad headache on Wednesday which by…
At the start of each year I like to take a moment to pause, reflect and set my goals for the year ahead. There are three tools I want to share with you to get your 2023 kicked off with a bang. MORE + LESS LIST The first two tools are two separate lists. 
Write out a list of everything you want more of in 2023. What do you want to…
Hey, you. Yes – you, you beautiful soul. Just stop with the scrolling, just for a minute. Right now, in this moment, I want you to think about all that you are, instead of all that you are not. Stop criticising yourself. Think about yourself as the magnificent being that you are. The odds of you even existing are one in 400 trillion (calculated by Dr Ali Binazir from Harvard). Add to…