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Learn to love being alone

  I’ve never really believed in the old saying “two halves make a whole”.   It never really made sense to me.   Don’t two whole people make a better partnership?   If you’re half a person then you’re always looking for someone else to meet your needs instead of you being able to fill your cup without external sources.   When I was in my 20’s, I remember the feeling of looking at a whole weekend with no plans.…

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Let go or be dragged

“Hold with an open hand, or face the consequences”   We’ve all been there.   Something in our life isn’t working out the way we thought it would, or wanted it to.   We know that we need to let go, but we cling on for dear life hoping things will get better.   “If I just stay another 6 months in this job that’s killing my soul, maybe I’ll figure out what I want to do with my life.”…

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Are you drinking poison and expecting the other person to die?

Kurt Vonnegut said “hate, in the long run, is about as nourishing as cyanide.”He’s so right.Are you holding on to repressed anger, bitterness, resentment or hate?Who are you directing that towards?Do you know what those kind of emotions do you your physiology, physical body and mental health when you refuse to let them go?Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. The only person we are really hurting is ourselves. Toxic emotions can create serious…

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