When I was learning to ride a motorbike, my instructor was quick to tell me to focus my attention on the direction I wanted to go in. So when I found myself on my brand new motorbike looking at a kerb and thinking to myself “don’t look at the kerb,” let’s just say it didn’t end well. Ouch! (I wrote my bike off and nearly myself in the process!) “You get what you focus on” is true for life in…
