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Instead of becoming bitter, become better

    “Attitude is a choice.  Happiness is a choice.  Optimism is a choice.  Kindness is a choice.  Giving is a choice.  Respect is a choice.  Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”  – Roy T. Bennett   We’ve all been treated unfairly at times ~ it’s part of life. 😞   Certain situations can lead us to feel angry, upset, mistreated and resentful. 😡    It’s perfectly normal to feel that way, but when you allow yourself to…

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Let’s talk about shame

    I was listening to a podcast about domestic abuse yesterday.    The woman being interviewed works in the field with survivors + training professionals.   She was sharing her experience of her own abusive relationship + the shame she felt being in one while also working in the field, as well as how it changed her work.   It brought up so many parallels for me that I wanted to share.    I never share this stuff from…

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How to heal your triggers

    I recently had an awesome podcast interview with my friend Tracey Cook around triggers.   We discuss;   ❔ what are triggers + where they originate 🌀 a quick + easy way to neutralise your triggers in the moment  🙌🏻 how to do a deeper dive into healing the source of your triggers    I guided Tracey through a trigger she’d experienced that day + did a live demo with her where we explored the emotions + used…

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Embrace the negative – It’s showing you where you don’t want to be

    When you’re facing negative situations in life, how do you handle it? 🤔    Do you spend your time and energy complaining about the way things are?   Do you blame other people? 😤    Do you put it in the basket of “nothing will ever work out for me”?   Or do you use it as an indication that you’re not where you want to be, and do something about it?   If you’re stuck in negative…

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Does your partner support your goals?

    Cam is the first partner I’ve ever had who is as goal focused as I am. 🥰   I’m constantly committed to personal development + learning new things but I’ve always done this on my own or with other like minded friends ~ none of my exes ever wanted to share stuff like that with me.   I’m into plenty of woo-woo stuff that Cam’s not necessarily interested in, but I did teach him how to do energy…

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Are you trying to manifest like a mo fo + it’s not working for you?

    The Law of Attraction    Most people by now have heard about the Law of Attraction through the book + movie “The Secret”. 🤫    The principle of the Law of Attraction is that “where attention goes, energy flows” – meaning that you give your power to whatever you focus on. 🧐   If you spend your time focusing on what you don’t want, you’ll get more of that.   If you get clear on what you want…

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