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Let’s talk about shame

    I was listening to a podcast about domestic abuse yesterday.    The woman being interviewed works in the field with survivors + training professionals.   She was sharing her experience of her own abusive relationship + the shame she felt being in one while also working in the field, as well as how it changed her work.   It brought up so many parallels for me that I wanted to share.    I never share this stuff from…

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Does your partner support your goals?

    Cam is the first partner I’ve ever had who is as goal focused as I am. 🥰   I’m constantly committed to personal development + learning new things but I’ve always done this on my own or with other like minded friends ~ none of my exes ever wanted to share stuff like that with me.   I’m into plenty of woo-woo stuff that Cam’s not necessarily interested in, but I did teach him how to do energy…

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Dear me

    I’m sorry for all those times I never let you speak your mind and stand up for yourself. I forgive you, I love you.    🥺   I’m sorry for all those relationships I tried to make work when they didn’t deserve it. I forgive you, I love you.   🥹   I’m sorry for taking years longer to move to Australia because you let yourself be held back by him. I forgive you, I love you.  …

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He’s my reflection

    I N T I M A C Y ~ into me, I see ❤️   After what felt like a lifetime of failed relationships, I met my amazing fiancé Cam when I was 38.   In our last few years together I’ve realised how much all my relationships have been a reflection of how I feel about myself and what I need to heal.    My past relationships were a reflection of;   🥹 how I put others…

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If I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened

    I was listening to a podcast last week and the person being interviewed was sharing their story of overcoming a challenge.   She said “if I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened.”   Which situations can you say that about in your life? 🧐    Where you ignored your gut feeling and intuition, only to be kicked in the butt by it later?   I know I can reflect on many such times.   If I…

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Not this, not anymore

    Most of us get to a point where we’re confronted with that awful moment of realisation that we’ve ended up in a bad  spot. 😵‍💫   That moment where you think ohhhhh shit I need to leave this job/relationship/career/home/country or whatever it is.    Or maybe you realise you need to stop thinking or behaving in a certain way, or that the thing you’ve been blamed for IS actually your fault. 🤯   Maybe you find yourself pretending…

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