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Try this to release past hurts

    We all have emotional baggage from our past that holds us back from achieving our goals and being our best self.    One of my favourite things to do is to help others uncover what’s holding them back so they can become the best version of themselves.   Out of the hundreds of tools I’ve learned along the way, forgiveness work is my number one go-to if I’m stuck.   The first forgiveness technique I learned was taught…

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Let’s talk about shame

    I was listening to a podcast about domestic abuse yesterday.    The woman being interviewed works in the field with survivors + training professionals.   She was sharing her experience of her own abusive relationship + the shame she felt being in one while also working in the field, as well as how it changed her work.   It brought up so many parallels for me that I wanted to share.    I never share this stuff from…

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Does your partner support your goals?

    Cam is the first partner I’ve ever had who is as goal focused as I am. 🥰   I’m constantly committed to personal development + learning new things but I’ve always done this on my own or with other like minded friends ~ none of my exes ever wanted to share stuff like that with me.   I’m into plenty of woo-woo stuff that Cam’s not necessarily interested in, but I did teach him how to do energy…

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Dear me

    I’m sorry for all those times I never let you speak your mind and stand up for yourself. I forgive you, I love you.    🥺   I’m sorry for all those relationships I tried to make work when they didn’t deserve it. I forgive you, I love you.   🥹   I’m sorry for taking years longer to move to Australia because you let yourself be held back by him. I forgive you, I love you.  …

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He’s my reflection

    I N T I M A C Y ~ into me, I see ❤️   After what felt like a lifetime of failed relationships, I met my amazing fiancé Cam when I was 38.   In our last few years together I’ve realised how much all my relationships have been a reflection of how I feel about myself and what I need to heal.    My past relationships were a reflection of;   🥹 how I put others…

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If I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened

    I was listening to a podcast last week and the person being interviewed was sharing their story of overcoming a challenge.   She said “if I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened.”   Which situations can you say that about in your life? 🧐    Where you ignored your gut feeling and intuition, only to be kicked in the butt by it later?   I know I can reflect on many such times.   If I…

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