We’ve just moved into a new home and now we’re mostly settled, at the top of my to-do list is to do a space clearing on our new home as well as our old one to clear out any bad juju. 🏡 I’ve been doing space clearings for around 15 years now and it’s amazing the difference it can make to how you feel in your home. Having grown up in a haunted house I experienced early on that…
I’m just coming out the tail end of a gnarly chronic pain flare up that has seen my routine very off for the last few weeks. 🫣 We went to Melbourne and travelling usually means a flare up for me due to different beds, different cars, different routine and less exercise. I was back in my routine for a few days and then it hit me again so the last week has been a write-off. 🥺 It’s easy to…
Recently one of the members of my Project Self Worth course sent me this message: HER: this healing shit is coming in waves haha 🌊 ME: sounds like you’re processing so much in this course! HER: it’s opened up a lot. I think it was bubbling away at the surface and I had the “nah I’m healed” mentality and then the course said “hold my beer” 🍺😂 This member has also done a few of my other courses –…
Recently I had the mother of a woman experiencing family violence join my Project Self Worth program, where I educate women about healthy vs unhealthy relationships and show them my step-by-step guide on how to heal from abuse and find healthy love. ❤️ All the other women on my program are in/healing from abusive relationships, but this member isn’t – her daughter is. I’m loving the messages I’m receiving from her with her many light bulb moments, recognising how…
Recently a conversation I was having with one of my Project Self Worth members reminded me of something my coach had said on one of her podcasts about people robbing themselves of joy. She spoke about this in the context of your past trauma leading you to protect yourself in certain ways, and how this essentially leads you to putting a cap on the amount of happiness you allow yourself to feel. 🥹 I remember how much emotion this…
Imagine getting bitten by a snake, and instead of focusing your energy on recovering you chase the snake, wanting to know why it hurt you. 🥹 You want to prove to the snake that you didn’t deserve it biting you. This is a great analogy for what those who seek approval and validation outside of themselves tend to do when hurt by others. We chase them for answers; why did they hurt us? What did we do wrong? What…