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Coach Carly

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Stop telling yourself “I’ll be happy when…”

When I get that job/house/car/partner/money… I’ll be happy. How often do you do this to yourself? The problem with this is that we never arrive there, because the finish line always moves. We also cheat ourselves out of a dopamine hit when we constantly reach for the next goal, instead of celebrating where we’re at. We then find ourselves wanting to achieve less and less, which is why so many people get stuck and stall in life. Try instead living…

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That which you do not hate you’ll eventually tolerate

I was watching an awesome interview with Ed Mylett, Peak Performance expert this week (check out the video here: https://youtu.be/na7RfQ5NBC8) called what everyone struggling needs to know. Ed said his favourite quote was by Malcolm X, “that which you do not hate you will eventually tolerate.” This identifies most people’s lives.  Average becomes a sort of slow asphyxiation where over time we become stuck in our comfort zone and immune to the person we’re becoming.  We minimise where we’re at…

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The only way out is through

If you’re struggling through something difficult, like a sand bog or a marsh, going back takes as much effort as is does to push through to the other side. The painful slog through needs to be gone through to get to the end. What I see in a lot of people going through tough times is that they want to bury their head in the sand and avoid the issue altogether (which never resolves anything), or they avoid their painful…

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The importance of grounding if you have anxiety

I was chatting to a coaching client the other day about the anxiety she faces on an almost daily basis. Check out a video I recorded on YouTube discussing this topic. She noticed that she doesn’t feel anxiety when she’s exercising, at the beach, with friends or doing the things she loves.  When we experience anxiety, our energy field literally leaves our physical body.  We also do this when we experience depression, fatigue, and other painful emotions, or when we…

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Do you suffer from mother’s guilt?

This week I’m running coaching workshops and energy treatments at my best friend Kelly Rennie’s Busy Mums Retreat in Queensland. The venue is AMAZEBALLS (check it out here) and for a few days these 12 amazing mums are being treated to massages, spa, sauna, swimming, beach time, mindset workshops, healthy food and workouts.   The next workshop is in March – email kelly@busymumfitness.com for more info or check out her website https://busymumfitness.com. So many of these gorgeous ladies have mother’s guilt coming up…

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If it’s not a full body yes it’s a clear no

How much of your life do you spend doing things out of obligation? This week I’ve been reading a book called Essentialism – The Disciplined Pursuit Of Less, by Greg McKeown. He opens the book by telling a story of a businessman who was overwhelmed by how much he had on his plate. Bit by bit, he started saying no to things.  He’d always been the yes man, so this was a change for those around him, but he adjusted. …

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