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And then one day, we stop being the person we used to be

  It’s subtle at first, the way they change you. 💔    The way they pick on the things you wear.   How you look.   Who you hang out with.   Criticising how you cook, how you clean, how you take the bins out.   Telling you their friends think you’re “too much.”   You’ve buried yourself in work, another thing they criticise you for. 😢   Work has become your respite, the place where you can be yourself. …

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Victim to victory to visionary

  Join me + my friend Tracey Lee Cook as Tracey shares her powerful story + valuable insight. Tracey overcame growing up in domestic violence, sexual abuse + nearly losing her baby at 8 months pregnant due to domestic violence. From a hospital bed at age 38 she read her first ever book by Tony Robbins + in that moment decided to change her life. Learn how to wear your story like a superhero cape instead of an anchor! I…

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Instead of becoming bitter, become better

    “Attitude is a choice.  Happiness is a choice.  Optimism is a choice.  Kindness is a choice.  Giving is a choice.  Respect is a choice.  Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”  – Roy T. Bennett   We’ve all been treated unfairly at times ~ it’s part of life. 😞   Certain situations can lead us to feel angry, upset, mistreated and resentful. 😡    It’s perfectly normal to feel that way, but when you allow yourself to…

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Let’s talk about shame

    I was listening to a podcast about domestic abuse yesterday.    The woman being interviewed works in the field with survivors + training professionals.   She was sharing her experience of her own abusive relationship + the shame she felt being in one while also working in the field, as well as how it changed her work.   It brought up so many parallels for me that I wanted to share.    I never share this stuff from…

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How to heal your triggers

    I recently had an awesome podcast interview with my friend Tracey Cook around triggers.   We discuss;   ❔ what are triggers + where they originate 🌀 a quick + easy way to neutralise your triggers in the moment  🙌🏻 how to do a deeper dive into healing the source of your triggers    I guided Tracey through a trigger she’d experienced that day + did a live demo with her where we explored the emotions + used…

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Embrace the negative – It’s showing you where you don’t want to be

    When you’re facing negative situations in life, how do you handle it? 🤔    Do you spend your time and energy complaining about the way things are?   Do you blame other people? 😤    Do you put it in the basket of “nothing will ever work out for me”?   Or do you use it as an indication that you’re not where you want to be, and do something about it?   If you’re stuck in negative…

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