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Overactive VS underactive chakras: What’s the difference?

  The word “chakra” is a Sanskrit word meaning “wheel of light” – and each chakra brings energy into – and expels energy out of – our bodies. 🌀  Chakras aren’t just “open” or “closed.” They can also become underactive or overactive, depending on what you’ve experienced and how you’ve adapted to it. Think of them as your body’s energetic communication system.  When they’re out of balance, they often show up through your thoughts, emotions and behaviours. Have a look…

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How I learned to trust myself again after abuse

  When I hit 38 after the end of another abusive relationship, I had completely lost trust in my own judgement. I’d discovered my core wound of abandonment and rejection and… fuck me, did it hurt. 😞  Even after having done a shitload of healing, coaching and other personal development tools since my early twenties, this wound knocked the wind out of me. 💨  I needed time and space to heal.  A lot of space.  Space to reflect on what…

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Are you being authentic, or just acting out your insecurities?

  One of the biggest things I see in the personal development world is people confusing authenticity or intuition with acting on every feeling they have. Just because something feels true doesn’t mean it’s coming from your authentic self. Sometimes it’s coming from your wounds and insecurities. Which is a mahoosive difference. Your authentic self says: “This relationship isn’t meeting my needs, so I really need to have an honest conversation with them.” 🗣️ Your insecurity says: “They didn’t text…

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5 Reasons why I get blamed for relationship break ups

  I’ve been blamed by more than one person for being the cause for their relationship ending. And I’m totally fine with it.  Because it has nothing to do with cheating – it’s because I’ve been their partners’ coach and/or energy worker/Reiki teacher. My absolute passion in life is helping my clients to fulfil their potential; to become the best version of themselves, clearing whatever is holding them back, healing their past trauma, and figuring out whatever their version of…

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You’re not confused, your intuition is giving you a nudge

  I often hear my clients say they’re “confused” about whatever situation it is that they’re struggling with at the time. 😵‍💫  My answer is always the same. I honestly don’t believe in “confusion” – not when it comes to relationships anyway, which is most often when this word comes up in conversation. I believe “confusion” is more of a cop-out, a bullshit excuse you tell yourself when you don’t want to confront the truth that your intuition is showing…

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If I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened

I was listening to a podcast last week and the person being interviewed was sharing their story of overcoming a challenge. She said “if I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened.” Which situations can you say that about in your life? Where you ignored your gut feeling and ignored your intuition, only to be kicked in the arse by it later? I know I can reflect on many such times. If I had listened to me, I wouldn’t…

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