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emotional baggage

Stop letting people drain you: 8 Ways to protect your energy

  You’re not exhausted all the time because life is “busy.” 🫩 You’re exhausted because you’re absorbing everyone else’s shite, you’re overthinking everything and you’ve got zero energetic boundaries. So if you’re constantly feeling like life is sucking the energy out of you, it’s time to sort your shit out.   Here are my top 8 ways to protect your energy.   ⚡ 1. GET GROUNDED (YOU’RE WAY TOO IN YOUR HEAD) If you constantly feel like you have a…

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Why you feel so bogged down by life

  Imagine we’re all born with an empty suitcase. 🧳  Over the course of your life, every unresolved issue or trauma turns into a potato that goes in the suitcase.  Depending on how big the trauma was the potato might be a small or large one, or a big fucking pumpkin. 🎃  Eventually, your suitcase is full… so you start lugging another one around, filling that up with more potatoes of all shapes and sizes. 🥔  Maybe that one gets…

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I used to think love was enough 💔

  There was a time in my younger years that I honestly believed that love would be enough to make a relationship work. #naive So when the red flags started appearing in my relationships, I ignored them because I honestly believed that love would overcome any issue. 🚩 I was wrong: love isn’t enough. 🥺 Especially when you’re in love with someone who isn’t right for you. Who can’t communicate and isn’t willing to work on themselves. Who doesn’t love…

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What happens when you finally do the work on yourself

  REAL healing – clearing your past baggage, challenging the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck, and actually learning to love yourself – will completely change your life. 🤩 Not just on a surface level, but deep in your nervous system, your relationships, your self-worth, and your peace. It’s not pretty. It’s not an instant, overnight fix. It’s a lifetime of work.. but fuck, it’s worth it. CLEARING YOUR PAST BAGGAGE Every single one of us carries emotional baggage –…

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Try this to release past hurts

  We all have emotional baggage from our past that holds us back from achieving our goals and being our best self. ❤️‍🩹  One of my favourite things to do is to help others uncover what’s holding them back so they can become the best version of themselves. Out of the hundreds of tools I’ve learned along the way, forgiveness work is my number one go-to if I’m stuck. The first forgiveness technique I learned was taught to me by…

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Why they can’t meet you where you’re at (It’s not your fault)

  Do you ever find yourself pouring your heart out to someone and get met with the emotional equivalent of a blank Google Doc? 🥺 Yeah. That. Let’s talk about it. Most people are walking around like IKEA furniture – held together by a few screws and a prayer. 🙏  No therapy. No shadow work. No journaling.  Not even a self-help podcast while doing dishes.  Fuck all. So when you come in all self-aware and shit, emotionally intelligent, slightly unhinged (but…

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