Yesterday I got the following question posted up on my Coach Carly Facebook page: “how do you help a friend who is in a very controlling emotionally abusive relationship?” As a transformational life coach who also teaches Reiki and so works in the energy realms a lot, there were two branches to my suggestions – the first was how to support the friend, and the second (but more important aspect) was how to look after your own energy. I have…
This afternoon I took some time out and headed to the beach five minutes from my house. This is nothing out of the ordinary for my life these days. But as I lay there on a white sandy beach, with barely another soul in sight, looking out onto the clear turquoise ocean glittering under the sunshine with not a cloud in the sky, I had a crystal clear moment of realisation and reflection. The sun was beaming down…