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How becoming the cycle breaker can change your whole family ⛓️‍💥💥

  Back when I started my healing/personal development journey I was in my early twenties, so I’ve been on that journey for 20+ years now. Myself, my bro and my sis have amazing role models for parents; their relationship has always been on a pedestal for me in terms of their deep love for each other, the way they co-parent us kids, the way they handle any issues, the way they created a business empire from literally nothing except sheer…

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5 signs you’re still in survival mode after leaving a relationship

  If you’ve left an unhealthy/toxic/abusive relationship and you’re wondering why you still feel so shit, your nervous system is likely still fried. 🍳    Survival mode doesn’t just switch off the moment you end the relationship – and the longer you’ve been with your nervous system in overdrive, the more time you’ll need to heal it.   The frazzled-ness lingers in your thoughts, your habits, your reactions… until you finally teach your body and mind that you’re safe now.…

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When you’re the red flag – examples

  Recently I shared a blog called “Are You The Red Flag?” and promised to follow up with some more examples of what some more red flags can look like from those clients who’ve been wounded in past relationships and are now bringing their baggage into the next one.   So here we are!   REAL EXAMPLES (FROM MY CLIENTS) 🚩   I’m not talking about the obvious red flags like cheating or abuse…   I’m talking about the sneaky…

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Stop letting people drain you: 8 Ways to protect your energy

  You’re not exhausted all the time because life is “busy.” 🫩 You’re exhausted because you’re absorbing everyone else’s shite, you’re overthinking everything and you’ve got zero energetic boundaries. So if you’re constantly feeling like life is sucking the energy out of you, it’s time to sort your shit out.   Here are my top 8 ways to protect your energy.   ⚡ 1. GET GROUNDED (YOU’RE WAY TOO IN YOUR HEAD) If you constantly feel like you have a…

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Why limbo feels so hard

  Recently I’ve been chatting to a few clients about situations they’re in where they feel stuck in the “in-between”. 🥺 Limbo presents its own kind of challenges; it’s not about hitting rock bottom, it’s not chaotic, it’s not a blow-up moment where you’re forced into making a change. Limbo is the awkward, frustrated space that sucks the life out of you because you know something has to change, and you know what you want (or what you don’t want),…

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5 Reasons why I get blamed for relationship break ups

  I’ve been blamed by more than one person for being the cause for their relationship ending. And I’m totally fine with it.  Because it has nothing to do with cheating – it’s because I’ve been their partners’ coach and/or energy worker/Reiki teacher. My absolute passion in life is helping my clients to fulfil their potential; to become the best version of themselves, clearing whatever is holding them back, healing their past trauma, and figuring out whatever their version of…

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