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Fia

Why ignoring the truth is a terrible life plan

  Recently I’ve been reading “The Diary of a CEO” by Stephen Bartlett and he wrote “an ostrich with its head in the sand is at great risk of being eaten”. He was talking about cognitive dissonance – the mind games we play with ourselves to avoid admitting what we already know. 🫣 Cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort we go through when we hold conflicting beliefs, values or attitudes; or when your actions go against your beliefs/values, creating tension. …

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I don’t fix people – I help them remember who the fck they are

  I help people get unstuck. Unstuck in their relationship, life and biz; but mostly unstuck from the mask they’ve been wearing to the outside world that’s been hiding their true, authentic self.  The kind of stuck that keeps your soul tired and your nervous system completely fried. 🫣 What I do best is help my peeps to clear the shit that’s been quietly running in the background that’s negatively impacting their lives; the patterns, limiting beliefs, conditioning, past trauma,…

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What if 2026 is the year you finally choose yourself?

  One of my biggest passions in life is helping people to clear the shit that’s holding them back to become the best version of themselves, so they can live their best life as their true authentic selves – I have over 20 years experience in helping thousands of people change their lives. If that sounds like something you’re ready for, here are a few ways you can work with me this year. 💫self wor 1:1 COACHING I have a…

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Things to look out for when choosing the right reiki teacher

  Back in 2005 when a friend suggested I learn Reiki 1 so I could do self-healing, I never really gave much thought about choosing a Reiki Teacher. 👩🏼‍🏫  I just googled a course at a place I wanted to go to. Job done.  But in the 20+ years I’ve been doing energy work on thousands of people, and teaching over 400 students, I’ve found it deserves soooo much more time and attention in choosing a Reiki Teacher (or practitioner…

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When something feels off in your relationship (But you can’t explain why)

  It rarely starts with a big moment. 🤷🏼‍♀️  No dramatic fight. No obvious dealbreaker. No clear reason you can point to and say, “This is wrong.” 🤔  As a relationship coach and trauma-informed practitioner who has spent over 20 years working with women in unhealthy dynamics and perpetrators of family violence as a Parole Officer (and having lived it myself in many past relationships) I see this quiet questioning stage all the time. This means awareness is starting to…

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Before the new year begins, read this

    Hey legend, As this year comes to a close, I want to offer you something different. 💫 Not a pep talk, not a push, not a “new year, new you” speech. Just a pause. Time to reflect. 🧐  There’s a lot of noise at this time of year telling you to reflect harder, decide faster and to know exactly what you want next. But here’s what I see, again and again, in my work with hundreds of clients…

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