(It’s the subtle shit that steals your power) Manipulation isn’t always the obvious, movie-villain stuff. 🦹 Sometimes it’s soft, sneaky, and served with a side of “but I’m only saying this because I love you babe.” If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, guilty, or like your brain got fucked over by someone who swears they “did nothing wrong”… I totally know how that feels. 🥺 You’ve probably been manipulated, which is hard to swallow if…
I was chatting to a friend the other day who was really in struggle town that day and for the previous few days. Nothing had seemed to be going right with her health, biz, money, relationship… anything really. She was giving herself shit because she knows all these amazing coaching and healing tools to be able to snap herself out of a funk… but sometimes this leads to spiritual bypassing when what we really need is to just FEEL…
As I was nearing the end of my time in a day-job in Corrections In January to work in my biz full time, I got so excited about all the extra time I’d have and all the extra cool things I could do in my biz. 💫 My pattern in life has always been to totally overload myself with way too many things to do, which sometimes doesn’t seem like it’s to my detriment because I actually LOVE the…
I used to think healing meant peace. That once I left the chaos behind… the toxic relationships, the drama, the constant overthinking.. I’d finally be free. I thought it would feel calm, light, and effortless. Some days, it absolutely does. 🥰 You wake up and feel like your heart has finally unclenched. You’re grounded. Grateful. You can breathe again. But sometimes, out of nowhere… bam. A song, a smell, a memory… suddenly you’re right back there, feeling it all…
“Relationships take work.” Well yep, that’s true, but there IS a difference between two people working on a healthy relationship and people disguising emotional damage as effort. The latter leads to slowly becoming a shell of yourself. 🐚 All relationships have challenges. Hard conversations, disagreements and growing pains are normal. But if you constantly feel anxious, confused, or like you’re the only one trying to fix things, that’s not “just a rough patch.” That’s a red flag. 🚩 …
Are we seriously in November already? I feel like it was January last week! 😳 Cast your mind back to the start of the year… did you set any goals? How many of them have you achieved? Is there anything you could have done differently? 🧐 This is always a great time of year to reflect on the year that’s finishing up and start prepping for the year ahead. Which is why I have a special freebie for you…