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5 Reasons why I get blamed for relationship break ups

  I’ve been blamed by more than one person for being the cause for their relationship ending. And I’m totally fine with it.  Because it has nothing to do with cheating – it’s because I’ve been their partners’ coach and/or energy worker/Reiki teacher. My absolute passion in life is helping my clients to fulfil their potential; to become the best version of themselves, clearing whatever is holding them back, healing their past trauma, and figuring out whatever their version of…

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Watch your language + stop self-sabotaging

  At least once or twice a week I pull clients or friends up about the language they’re using out loud, as well as what they continually tell themselves. I’m not talking about swearing here, I swear like a trooper! 🤭 I’m talking about those times where you’re focusing on a situation that you’re unsure about; you want it to go a certain way but at the same time you’re putting contradictory messages out to the universe with your language.…

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The power of community when you’re breaking free from abuse

  Last week we kicked off our very first of 12 live group coaching calls for my Project Self Worth members. These calls are always so special for me, and I come away feeling like I’ve had a giant group hug – I honestly feel like I get a big dump of oxytocin and dopamine (feel good hormones) after running these calls. 🥰 The biggest reason for this is the sense of community and connection these calls provide. Each of…

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Happiness isn’t a fairy cake… Until it is

  Years ago, I wrote a blog called Happiness Is A Fairy Cake, which was all about how it’s the simple things in life that make me happy. 🧁  That blog was a deep story about a relationship I’d been in at the time that was really unhealthy for me, how I’d gone to the other end of London for a healing and seen this big yellow fairy cake that I bought before the healing with the intention of sharing…

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Being vulnerable + knowing when to tap out is a strength

A few days ago I did my first live video in a while sharing how it’s been a shit couple of months for myself and Hot Fiance – not between us, but around us. 🥺 I’ve had this level of anxiety building at times because for around four months now I’ve been working with my team to get my business set up so that during those times that the sht hits the fan, I’ll have passive income streams in my…

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Questions to ask yourself when something feels off

  That subtle feeling that you get when something isn’t quite right can be easier to dismiss than to spend time reflecting on. 🤔   But learning how to listen to that “off” feeling without panic or self-doubt is a skill.   Instead of ignoring it, justifying it, gaslighting yourself or rushing to fix it, try asking yourself some curious questions instead:   “Am I responding to what’s actually happening right now, or to who I’m afraid of upsetting?”  …

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