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Fia

20 things you may not know about me

  Hey legend I’ve had a bunch of newbies join my community lately so I thought it would be a good time to reintroduce myself! ☺️   What better way than to start off with a list of random shit you may not know about me… 🌎 I first came to Australia on holidays with my 15 year old sister when I was 19. We visited a few spots in Aus as part of a world trip and I knew…

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Know when to go easy on yourself

  I’m just coming out the tail end of a gnarly chronic pain flare up that has seen my routine very off for the last few weeks. 🫣 We went to Melbourne and travelling usually means a flare up for me due to different beds, different cars, different routine and less exercise. I was back in my routine for a few days and then it hit me again so the last week has been a write-off. 🥺 It’s easy to…

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Are mixed signals giving you emotional whiplash?

  Consistency is the key in any relationship when it comes to building trust and emotional security. If we get caught up in the early stages of a relationship and any potential love-bombing that may be going on, it can be easy to miss inconsistency creeping in. 🫣 When it finally hits you, you may feel confused and frustrated.  Inconsistency can show up in unpredictable behaviour or communication patterns to create uncertainty by giving you mixed signals. 🚦  They may…

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Another MAFS brain dump #sorrynotsorry

Ok, so thank fuck MAFS is almost over!  Yes I know, it’s massively edited but there are some real lessons we can still learn here about relationships. ❤️‍🩹  I got up to speed with the episodes this week and the relationship I want to focus on is Paul and Carina. Carina – what a stunningly beautiful person inside and out. 😍 She comes across as extremely family oriented with strong values relating to loyalty, trust and having her partner’s back.…

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Not everyone has to like you…

  Only YOU have to like you. 🤷🏼‍♀️  So many of us spend too much time, energy and wasted thoughts worrying about what others think of us.  We also tend to operate on what we assume  they think of us instead of what’s actually true.  One of my favourite quotes is: “We’re all living life based on a perception, of a perception, of what we think other people think of us” 🤔🤯😳 What’s the fucking point in expending all this…

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Stop romanticising the past

  We have a tendency to put rose coloured glasses on many things in life – including the past. 🌹👓  It’s easy to look back on past situations that weren’t good for us and only focus on the good things about them. Looking back at the crazy social life you had in your younger years and remembering all the fun times – forgetting how it made you unreliable at work because of sick days, abusing your body through drugs and…

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