We live in a world obsessed with fixing things. 🔨 Broken nails, broken phones, broken relationships. Fixing our faces so we don’t age. Fixing ourselves with endless personal development. But some things aren’t fixable – they’re fucked. 🥺 That’s not as doom and gloom as it sounds… but it IS an invitation to stop wasting your fucking time. I spent YEARS (and a fair bit of money, too) trying to fix things that were never mine to fix –…
Since I was at school I was always the one my mates would turn to for a brain dump. They’d vent to me and I’d seem to know what to say to help them feel better. ❤️🩹 It felt good for me too, so it seemed only natural to get into a career where I was helping others. My identity was totally enmeshed with being the helper, the fixer… the one everyone turned to with their pain, their…
We all have emotional baggage from our past that holds us back from achieving our goals and being our best self. ❤️🩹 One of my favourite things to do is to help others uncover what’s holding them back so they can become the best version of themselves. Out of the hundreds of tools I’ve learned along the way, forgiveness work is my number one go-to if I’m stuck. The first forgiveness technique I learned was taught to me by…
I heard a quote recently that said “the most dangerous thought in the world is thinking you know everything”. It rang so true. 🤔 “I already know this.” It’s your inner saboteur in a power suit. The ego’s last line of defence. The reason you’re stuck in an endless scroll of inspo while your passion slowly packs its bags and ghosts you. 👻 If you’re feeling stuck, lost, hopeless, and like your passion went out for milk and…
Are you going through a rough time right now and feeling a bit stuck? 😢 I always find it helpful to ask questions – in my mind, often at night before I go to sleep. 💤 Then just let it go and wait to receive the answers. 🎈 Sometimes the answer comes in unexpected ways. It might be a conversation with a stranger, something you read, a gift, it could be anything or a…
1. Avoid blaming someone or something else for your negative feelings. Nothing and nobody has the power to control how you think and feel unless you let it. 2. Don’t blame yourself for not being in control. You’re doing the best you can. 3. Be aware of when you’re playing the victim role. Learn the clues that tell you when you’re not being responsible for what you’re being/doing/having/feeling. 4. Get to know your biggest energy –…