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Happiness isn’t a fairy cake… Until it is

  Years ago, I wrote a blog called Happiness Is A Fairy Cake, which was all about how it’s the simple things in life that make me happy. 🧁  That blog was a deep story about a relationship I’d been in at the time that was really unhealthy for me, how I’d gone to the other end of London for a healing and seen this big yellow fairy cake that I bought before the healing with the intention of sharing…

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Being vulnerable + knowing when to tap out is a strength

A few days ago I did my first live video in a while sharing how it’s been a shit couple of months for myself and Hot Fiance – not between us, but around us. 🥺 I’ve had this level of anxiety building at times because for around four months now I’ve been working with my team to get my business set up so that during those times that the sht hits the fan, I’ll have passive income streams in my…

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Break The Cycle: A webinar for women ready to stop self-abandoning in relationships

  There came a moment in my past abusive relationships where something inside me said “not this, not anymore“.   Initially, it was a whisper, and the whisper got louder until I just couldn’t ignore it.  If this is happening to you right now too, it may still be a whisper that you don’t fully trust yet – and that’s totally ok.  But you are feeling it. Thinking it. Knowing it, deep in your bones somewhere.  That nagging feeling that…

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I don’t fix people – I help them remember who the fck they are

  I help people get unstuck. Unstuck in their relationship, life and biz; but mostly unstuck from the mask they’ve been wearing to the outside world that’s been hiding their true, authentic self.  The kind of stuck that keeps your soul tired and your nervous system completely fried. 🫣 What I do best is help my peeps to clear the shit that’s been quietly running in the background that’s negatively impacting their lives; the patterns, limiting beliefs, conditioning, past trauma,…

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When something feels off in your relationship (But you can’t explain why)

  It rarely starts with a big moment. 🤷🏼‍♀️  No dramatic fight. No obvious dealbreaker. No clear reason you can point to and say, “This is wrong.” 🤔  As a relationship coach and trauma-informed practitioner who has spent over 20 years working with women in unhealthy dynamics and perpetrators of family violence as a Parole Officer (and having lived it myself in many past relationships) I see this quiet questioning stage all the time. This means awareness is starting to…

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When everything was always a drama: How toxic relationships turn emergencies into punishment

  As I write this, I’m mid-air flying to London for an emergency trip back to the UK. ✈️  Cam was there with me when I got some concerning news and he was so amazing, nothing but supportive. 🥰 It wasn’t even a thought that I had to ask for “permission” to book a flight home even though it means all our Christmas plans go out the window.  I had a moment where I thought what this would have been…

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