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toxic relationships

Stop surrounding yourself with fckwits

    “You become like the five people you spend the most time with” is one of my fave quotes. 🫶🏻 If you keep surrounding yourself with negative, lazy, toxic, dramatic people who love a good whinge, it’s going to rub off on you too and your life will start to look like theirs. Energy rubs off. Mindsets rub off. Standards rub off; do you really want to lower your standards or raise them? 🤔  So if you spend most…

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Being vulnerable + knowing when to tap out is a strength

A few days ago I did my first live video in a while sharing how it’s been a shit couple of months for myself and Hot Fiance – not between us, but around us. 🥺 I’ve had this level of anxiety building at times because for around four months now I’ve been working with my team to get my business set up so that during those times that the sht hits the fan, I’ll have passive income streams in my…

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No, you’re not overthinking: You’re ignoring signals you’ve been taught not to trust

  You’re second guessing your own feelings. 😔   You feel hurt by the way they treat you, and wonder if you’re just overreacting.   You feel uncomfortable with what they’ve said to you, but tell yourself you’re being too sensitive.   You KNOW in your gut that something is off, and has been for ages… but you gaslight yourself and convince yourself otherwise. 💨💡   So you continue to minimise, justify and rationalise their words, their actions, their lack…

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You can’t change what you’re still pretending not to see

  Changing any situation that no longer serves you doesn’t start with action… or motivation… or affirmations and vision boards. It starts with AWARENESS. And awareness is the hardest bit – it’s inconvenient as fuck to become aware there’s an issue, because it means you can’t claim ignorance anymore. It means you’re starting to admit what you’re feeling in your body, that you’ve noticed the pattern; and that now you can’t unsee this shit. 🙈  Awareness is your “oh shit”…

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If I had listened to myself, my life would have changed sooner

  I once heard a podcast interviewee share her story of overcoming a challenge and she said: “If I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened.” Which situations can you say that about in your life? 🧐  Where you ignored your gut feeling and intuition, only to be kicked in the butt by it later? Hearing that sentence definitely caused me to reflect on many such times in my own life where I’d ignored my gut feeling, only to…

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I don’t fix people – I help them remember who the fck they are

  I help people get unstuck. Unstuck in their relationship, life and biz; but mostly unstuck from the mask they’ve been wearing to the outside world that’s been hiding their true, authentic self.  The kind of stuck that keeps your soul tired and your nervous system completely fried. 🫣 What I do best is help my peeps to clear the shit that’s been quietly running in the background that’s negatively impacting their lives; the patterns, limiting beliefs, conditioning, past trauma,…

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