How many people do you know who introduce themselves by talking about their struggles? 🤔 You only need to sit at a nail bar or coffee shop to hear people around you talking about all the things in their lives that are going wrong. Is this something you do too? Do you define yourself by your problems by saying things like “I’m an anxious person”, “I’m a people-pleaser“, “I’m terrible with money“, “I’ve always had shitty relationships“, “I’m just not…
Can I ask you something? When was the last time you asked someone for help? 🤔 Not because you had no other options, but because you were on the verge of a breaking point – because you were fucking done carrying the burden of everything alone all the time. When I ask my coaching clients this, many struggle to answer and genuinely find it difficult to remember the last time they asked for help. 😵💫 They’ve become so used…
After all the trauma you’ve endured and how much you’ve grown from it, you might start telling yourself “I’ve got this,” when you realise you’re one of the most independent people you know. It seems like confidence on the surface because you’re a strong, capable and independent person. 💪🏻 But what can seem like confidence may actually be the result of your nervous system learning that relying on other people wasn’t safe. Your brain has adapted because you were…
How long have you been putting something off because you keep telling yourself… “I’ll do it when I feel more confident.” Confidence doesn’t come first. You grow your confidence by DOING THE THING. 🤗 So many people are waiting for the perfect time, the right qualification, more money, more experience, more energy or more certainty. The problem is… none of those things create confidence. Taking action does. When I started my own business, I wasn’t overflowing with confidence. I…
When I met Lyn in March 2025, she had been agoraphobic for around 5 years and barely left her room during that time. 🥺 She was estranged from her family, had survived abusive relationships, was living with complex PTSD after significant grief and loss, had very little support outside of her doctor and psychologist, and certainly wasn’t living the life she wanted. We initially had a video call to discuss her needs and a way forward. She has since…
I’ve been practicing energy work and teaching Reiki for over 20 years now, and I see keeping on top of my energy hygiene as being as important as brushing my teeth and showering every day. 🚿 🪥 WHAT IS ENERGY HYGIENE? It’s the regular practices you use to keep your energy, mood, nervous system, physical and mental health and emotional state clear, grounded, and not bogged down by everyone else’s shite. If I hadn’t kept on top of my…