I was listening to Danny Morel interview therapist Terri Cole this week and she was listing out the traits of high functioning codependents (HFC’s) and my brain said: OMG THAT’S MEEEEEE!!! 😳 ⚡️ Well, it’s the version of me from the past but I consider myself “in recovery” (I still need to keep myself in check at times). HFC’s exhibit codependent traits while still managing to perform well in many areas of their lives. While they may seem successful…
We’re more connected than ever with the growth of social media, and yet we have never been more disconnected in our lives. 📱 Couples going for dinner, sitting on their phones are barely speaking a word. In Australia in 2022 there was an average of nine deaths by suicide per day. 😥 I find this unacceptable, and mostly preventable. What would it take for you to know that you can move through this dark time in your life? How…
During stressful times it can be really easy for us to stop doing anything that keeps us in balance. I cannot emphasise enough the importance of keeping on top of your energy hygiene during these times as a way of helping you stay grounded and to help you regulate your emotions. If you feel in need of an energy tune up, drop me a message and let’s chat. Sessions can be done in person or remotely via distant healing.…
Just reflecting on the last 17 years of running my biz and how grateful I feel for so many cool experiences along the way. ✨ I’ve learned some incredible personal development and energy tools over the years and I’ll never stop learning. Each year I want to become a better version of myself by healing whatever may be holding me back. 🙌🏻 And I want to bring that better version of me to my clients, sharing my learnings along…
How much of your day do you spend stressing about things you have little to zero control over? How much is that actually helping you in a positive way? Ask yourself: does stressing + worrying about anything actually help me through it? Or does it just run your body + mind down? rumina Can you find ways to surrender to the process instead? Try out some of these things to calm your nervous system if…
I’m reading a book at the moment which has been on my to-read list for SO long; The Body Keeps the Score by Bessell Van Der Kolk. At the moment I’m reading a section about safety and reciprocity, about how being able to feel safe with other people is “probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives”. Numerous studies have found that social support is the…