Only YOU have to like you. So many of us spend too much time, energy and wasted thoughts worrying about what others think of us. We also tend to operate on what we assume they think of us instead of what’s actually true. One of my favourite quotes is: “We’re all living life based on a perception, of a perception, of what we think other people think of us”
What’s the fucking point in expending all this…
Recently one of the members of my Project Self Worth course sent me this message: HER: this healing shit is coming in waves haha ME: sounds like you’re processing so much in this course! HER: it’s opened up a lot. I think it was bubbling away at the surface and I had the “nah I’m healed” mentality and then the course said “hold my beer”
This member has also done a few of my other courses –…
Recently I had the mother of a woman experiencing family violence join my Project Self Worth program, where I educate women about healthy vs unhealthy relationships and show them my step-by-step guide on how to heal from abuse and find healthy love. All the other women on my program are in/healing from abusive relationships, but this member isn’t – her daughter is. I’m loving the messages I’m receiving from her with her many light bulb moments, recognising how…
Recently a conversation I was having with one of my Project Self Worth members reminded me of something my coach had said on one of her podcasts about people robbing themselves of joy. She spoke about this in the context of your past trauma leading you to protect yourself in certain ways, and how this essentially leads you to putting a cap on the amount of happiness you allow yourself to feel. I remember how much emotion this…
Imagine getting bitten by a snake, and instead of focusing your energy on recovering you chase the snake, wanting to know why it hurt you. You want to prove to the snake that you didn’t deserve it biting you. This is a great analogy for what those who seek approval and validation outside of themselves tend to do when hurt by others. We chase them for answers; why did they hurt us? What did we do wrong? What…
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FINAL NOTICE TO JOIN PROJECT SELF WORTH! You can’t say you weren’t warned, right?! There are only 6 hours before the doors slam shut to the first live round of the Project Self Worth Program.
No mucking around now. Comment/reply “READY” and I’ll personally send you a private message. This way we can schedule a quick call to go through all the details with you and we can decide whether or…