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Why Christmas hits your childhood wounds harder than at any other time of year

Every year around December, people find themselves wondering… “Why do I feel so emotional?” “Why am I anxious, overwhelmed or irritated?” “Why does Christmas feel… heavy?” And if you’re someone who grew up with chaos, criticism, emotional inconsistency or any version of “walking on eggshells,” then Christmas isn’t just a holiday season… 🎄 It’s a somatic time machine. This is because Christmas activates the same parts of the brain as emotional memories from childhood. Christmas isn’t just a one-off…

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The real reason why you feel drained around certain people

Each week I see anywhere between three and forty people for energy work, either in person or via remote healing. 🙌🏻 Because I’m working with so many humans (and their spicy little energy fields), patterns pop up and I get to see different themes at different times. A consistent theme that pops up is people needing cord cutting. 🧬 (If you want the visual version, here’s a YouTube vid I did on it:) Just like we’re born with an…

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5 Silent emotional patterns keeping you stuck

Ever feel like you’ve read all the self-help books, journalled until you got RSI, and sat through therapy sessions nodding along… but still feel like you’re dealing with the same old shit? 💩 Yeah. You’re not the only one, legend. That’s because there are some sneaky AF emotional patterns that may be keeping you stuck. 😣 They’re subtle, quiet, and disguised as “normal” – but they’ll keep you spinning in circles until you drag them into the light. Here…

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When his eyes turned black, I knew I was in trouble

I’ll never forget this one client at my old job in Corrections. I was supervising a client on a Court Order once – not my usual guy, just filling in for a colleague – and it was evident to me straight away he was in psychosis. 🫨 I’ve worked with many people who are in psychosis the majority of the time, and when you work with someone consistently you know what their baseline is – as in, you can…

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Healthy vs unhealthy relationships

These days, the bulk of the coaching work I do with clients is around their relationship. Often, when a client starts working with me for coaching or energy work they come to me with some vague problems around feeling unhappy and discontent with where they’re at in life, but they’re struggling to understand why. 😞 It doesn’t usually take many sessions to realise that they have a serious lack of self-love which is showing up in a lack of…

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Are you taking time to reflect?

On Boxing Day Hot Fiancé and I went for a 16.2km hike. 🥾 While we walked we spent hours in conversation, reflecting on our 2024 has been; sharing wins, challenges and learnings. We reviewed each area of our lives and then we consciously created our 2025 by setting intentions and goals – both shared and personal goals. 💫 It was soooooo lovely for me to do this with him as he’s the first partner I’ve been with who’s actually…

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