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Pain

I was shaking as I logged into his email account…

  My first properly serious relationship was a biggie that affected me for a very long time afterwards. We got together when I was 17; we’d worked together at a gym for a few years by then. I was pretty young and naive and totally in love. 😍  I’d hear my mates bang on about how untrustworthy guys were, and I’d be all “not my man, I totally trust him, he’s a terrible liar so I’d know if he was…

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When his eyes turned black, I knew I was in trouble

  I’ll never forget this one client at my old job in Corrections. I was supervising a client on a Court Order once – not my usual guy, just filling in for a colleague – and it was evident to me straight away he was in psychosis. 🫨 I’ve worked with many people who are in psychosis the majority of the time, and when you work with someone consistently you know what their baseline is – as in, you can…

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Try this to release past hurts

  We all have emotional baggage from our past that holds us back from achieving our goals and being our best self. ❤️‍🩹  One of my favourite things to do is to help others uncover what’s holding them back so they can become the best version of themselves. Out of the hundreds of tools I’ve learned along the way, forgiveness work is my number one go-to if I’m stuck. The first forgiveness technique I learned was taught to me by…

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Are the energies in your home affecting you?

  We’ve just moved into a new home and now we’re mostly settled, at the top of my to-do list is to do a space clearing on our new home as well as our old one to clear out any bad juju. 🏡  I’ve been doing space clearings for around 15 years now and it’s amazing the difference it can make to how you feel in your home.  Having grown up in a haunted house I experienced early on that…

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Know when to go easy on yourself

  I’m just coming out the tail end of a gnarly chronic pain flare up that has seen my routine very off for the last few weeks. 🫣 We went to Melbourne and travelling usually means a flare up for me due to different beds, different cars, different routine and less exercise. I was back in my routine for a few days and then it hit me again so the last week has been a write-off. 🥺 It’s easy to…

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FFS, I thought I’d healed this already!!

  Recently one of the members of my Project Self Worth course sent me this message: HER: this healing shit is coming in waves haha 🌊  ME: sounds like you’re processing so much in this course! HER: it’s opened up a lot. I think it was bubbling away at the surface and I had the “nah I’m healed” mentality and then the course said “hold my beer” 🍺😂 This member has also done a few of my other courses –…

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