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Stop saying “should” – use “will” and “must”

    How often do you tell yourself you “should” do something?   I really should save money instead of buy that thing. 💰    I really should get up earlier to get to the gym.  🏋🏼    I really should look after myself better.   Should doesn’t often eventuate because there’s already a lack of commitment in the statement.    How does it feel when you replace “should” with “will” or “must”?   It becomes a thing that you’re…

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Heal your pain with forgiveness

    Last week I was chatting with a friend who is on a break from her boyfriend.    She was having a hard time dealing with it and was wanting to heal her pain, so I explained a process to her that I’ve found really helpful in the past.   It’s called ho’oponopono and it’s a Hawaiian mantra for reparation, healing and forgiveness.   The process is really simple ~ you bring to mind a certain situation or memory…

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Where will you be in 5 years if you don’t invest in yourself now?

    Every now and again I get a message that goes something like this:   “I want coaching/Reiki/to learn Reiki/to change my life, but I don’t have any money.”   This immediately tells me something really important about that person.   They aren’t truly committed to making the changes they say they want in their life 🤷🏼‍♀️    I know straight away this person is hoping to get something for nothing, and I also know I could give them…

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How would you describe your relationship with money?

I posted the above question on my socials recently and got responses like “fickle”, “abominable” and “complicated.” Not one person gave me a positive word!   Money is just an energy – it’s not good or bad, it is whatever we perceive it to be.   Imagine if the money in your life was an actual person that you were in a relationship with.   How do you treat your Mr or Mrs Money?   Do you constantly wait for…

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Could Your “Money Personality” Be Sabotaging You? (guest blog)

Guest blog by Denise Duffield-Thomas You know the feeling you get when you do “that thing” around money AGAIN? Spend wildly on a new extravagance even though bills are due… Hoard every penny even though you really want to splurge on a vacation… Forgo a spa treatment because your daughter really wants that new pair of designer jeans… Whatever you do with money, I bet you don’t just do it once. Most of us have habits with money — some…

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