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An open reply to an email I received

  Last week I got the following email via the contact form on my website: “All this advice, advice, advice!  Why doesn’t anyone EVER acknowledge the limitations put upon us by those who control the narrative?  Those who make the laws and decide our options?  It’s near to impossible to create the life you want when society decides it for you and expects you to toe the line?  I’m all for making my dreams come true… if only “they” would…

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You’re not a mess. You’re a feeling person in a messy world.

    I often have conversations with people who speak a lot about what they perceive as their anxiety and depression 🥹   What I’ve noticed is that sometimes we pathologise feelings that are a normal response to an abnormal situation.   “You are not a mess. You are a feeling person in a messy world.” ~ Glennon Doyle Melton   We throw around terms like anxiety and depression very loosely in this modern world, often when it’s not actually…

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Make your mess your message

  It’s a natural part of life that we go through times where we feel life is/we are a mess.   We face challenges and hopefully grow from them.   It can be easy to spiral down into the mindset of feeling like a victim, where you get stuck in the “why me” of it all.   But a more positive way of handling it can be to get curious about how your mess can become your message.   How…

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