Do you ever feel like you are getting in your own way? Like you’ll be in a good place in your life, reaching for your goals, and then the shit hits the fan? 🪭 We all do this occasionally, and some do it repeatedly. We sabotage ourselves because our fears get in the way, and we want to rescue ourselves from these fears and negative feelings that come up. 😖 I was explaining this to a client last week…
#reflection I’m so grateful to myself. Grateful I worked so hard at working on building my sense of self worth, self love and self esteem after I let partners who didn’t deserve my love tear it to shreds. 💔 Grateful I kept building my self love when I met Cam because I felt panicky letting his amazing kind of love in. 🫣 I didn’t/couldn’t trust it at first. After a history of challenging relationships where I was let down…
When we met around 2012, Tina and I hit it off massively as friends. Back then, she was working in hospitality, drinking and taking drugs regularly to block out her childhood. Many years later when we were working in sessions together with coaching and healing, her past trauma hit her like a freight train. She realised she was running the unconscious programming that she was “disgusting” which had led to many years of projecting a…
I have four awesome, crazy little nephews who are unfortunately a long way away in New York. My fam has a group family chat and every now and again, we get a little voice message from Mr Four. Hitting play on this has got to be one of the highlights of my day. You hear in his little sniffly four year old voice; “I feel fank u for….” with him repeating this over and…
We all go through painful situations in life – it’s an inevitable part of the journey of living.But suffering is a human condition and one that we do to ourselves. We obsessively think about things that happened in our past, that we did or were done to us.We overthink all the things we believe are going wrong in our lives.And by doing so, we forget how magnificent our life really is.What we focus on, we get more of. By wallowing in…
“Stop giving someone else the job of making you happy” – The Universe If you were to rate your general happiness levels out of 10, what score would you give yourself? We tend to put our happiness in the hands of external forces. We’ll be happy when we meet the love of our life. We’ll be happy when we’re out of debt. We’ll be happy when we get a new job. We also put the reasons for our unhappiness in…