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Get your shit together in 2025!

  Day 8, 2025. Did you set any resolutions at the start of the year? ✍🏻  How are they going? Chances are, not very well. 🤔  Rather than set resolutions each year, why not focus on getting your shit together in general?  How long has it been now that you’ve been thinking of changing your career, healing your past, working on (or ending) your relationship, prioritising your health and fitness, {insert desired goal here}? If not now, then when?  Things…

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3 tools to kick off your new year

  At the start of each year I like to take a moment to pause, reflect and set my goals for the year ahead. ✍🏻  There are three tools I want to share with you to get your 2025 kicked off with a bang.   MORE + LESS LIST The first two tools are two separate lists. ✅ Write out a list of everything you want more of in 2025.  What do you want to create more of this year?…

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Strategies for healthy boundaries when dealing with victim mindsets

  I was once sat next to an older lady while we both got our nails done.  About five minutes after I sat down to get mine done she starts telling me all about her life. An hour later I knew she’d had a heart attack eight years ago and that’s why she was sweating so much, she has a pacemaker and recently she broke her finger saving a puppy and now can’t feel any pain in that hand –…

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Inside out – How our beliefs are formed

  This week I went to see the movie, Inside Out 2. 🫶🏻 It was such a fun way to represent to kids and adults how beliefs are formed in the brain and also how you can overcome negative/limiting beliefs. Riley, the main character, hits puberty overnight and it’s so funny to watch the representation of how the “characters” – joy, sadness, disgust, anger and fear handle this new unknown territory when the shit hits the fan and the new…

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You get more of what you focus on

  When I was learning to ride a motorbike, my instructor was quick to tell me to focus my attention on the direction I wanted to go in. 🏍️    So when I found myself on my brand new motorbike looking at a kerb and thinking to myself “don’t look at the kerb,” let’s just say it didn’t end well.   Ouch! 🥴   (I wrote my bike off and nearly myself in the process!)   “You get what you…

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Pain is part of life; suffering is optional

    We all go through painful situations in life – it’s an inevitable part of the journey of living.   But suffering is a human condition + one that we do to ourselves.    We obsessively think about things that happened in our past, that we did or were done to us. 🤯   We overthink all the things we believe are going wrong in our lives.   By doing so, we forget how magnificent our life really is.…

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