Throughout my career, I’ve met far more people who aren’t willing to take responsibility for what shows up in their life than those who are. People who love to take a victim stance and blame others for their actions. One of the biggest lessons in life is that you are always responsible for how you act, no matter how you feel. Nobody can make you feel anything – people will do what they do, and you have a choice…
I was chatting to a friend the other day about a guy she’s been seeing for a few months.She was really upset about the way she’s being treated and she’s well aware that she’s allowing it to happen due to her own limiting beliefs and self-worth issues. Not everyone is as aware as my friend about how much she is feeding into the situation.A lot of us in relationships can get stuck into blame and victim mode when things aren’t going well.Why do they…